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I vote no. Leave it to a plugin.
If there were one I'd like to put my true identification which is none of the above listed. I identify as a "Rainbow Princess Unicorn of the Fourth Order" in which I would feel both left out and angry because my identification isn't listed there.
I feel that this is a niche need and therefore needs a niche solution. Plugin. Plugin. Plugin.
 
Edit: To be clear I joke because I believe that this opens up a pathway for people to attack others because of their gender preference. I have removed gender options completely from my community and people can choose to identify in their introduction, in their about me or not at all. It is up to them to make that choice, not me.

Please keep this madness out of IPB.

Recently, Instagram has implemented a new self-expression feature. They added a "Pronouns". LinkedIn added the same field a little earlier.
More and more users feel the need to inform which gender they identify with. Transgender people in particular do this for understandable reasons. Pronouns are not obligatory and Instagram users can decide whether the pronoun will be visible to all visitors to its profile or to those who follow it.
In the UK, for example, Instagrammers can choose between his, he, him, she, her, hers, hir, e, ey, em, eir, they, them, theirs, thon, thons, per, pers, fae, faer , ze, zir, zie, xe, xem, xyr, co, cos, ve, ver, vis, vi, vir, ne, nir, nirs, nee, ner, ners, mer and mers.

Of course, we can use our own built-in profile fields, but they are not translatable and will not be displayed at the top.

I think this is better as a plugin.
It's a seriously infected issue that will cause division in the user base. Personally I would never add it, unless my community is based around a community that think this is important. The reason for that is that it is pretty much a safe bet that people will behave just as bad as on Twitter and I think we have enough trolls to worry about to not add strife amongst our members if we can prevent it.
I am all for expressing yourself and adding whatever labels you feel is appropriate to your community, but this is what custom fields are for and this is what plugins should be used for in my opinion.

You don't know how much I love you guys.

You don't know how much I love you guys.

Another bug on notifications settings

Hello,
Is there a way to set available reactions per user group? (Group A can use Reactions 1-4 and Group B can use Reactions 1-10).

I dont mind reactions being shown in the notification menu but damn I dont want emails for it. The rest I wouldnt mind the option for emails with but yeah more granular is better with admins setting the default for new accounts with email etc.

I'm having the same problem!! I thought there was a problem with my current MariaDB installation. I had to disable Unread Activity Stream to solve this temporarily.
I am using MariaDB 10.5.9.

Thanks @SUBRTX - that's at least a step in the right direction, which is great news.
However, as I've just posted over in the comments on that link, I don't think it's been thought through very well.

Here's what I posted over there.
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I just had a closer read of it and and whilst it is a step in the right direction, I still don't think it's amazing.
Most people that use these notifications will still want to be notified when one of their posts is quoted by someone else.
But no-one wants to be notified when their post get a like/reaction.
So, keeping "quoted" and "reactions" bundled into a single option is a mistake in my opinion.
I feel like "quotes" should either be bundled with "replies / mentions" or setup as it's own option.
To be honest - for the best granularity - IMHO all 4 options should be separate.
I.e.
- REPLIES         [ON / OFF]
- MENTIONS   [ON / OFF]
- QUOTES        [ON / OFF]
- REACTIPONS [ON / OFF]

Thanks for help.
Server is OK, Xeon E3, RAM 32 GB, SSD...
MySQL crashes after only 2 seconds, while timeout is much more.
It's very weird.

Because after the crash, MySQL restart, the site is down during 5 seconds the time that MySQL restarted completely.
Here are the MySQL logs:
Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: 210318 14:07:06 [ERROR] mysqld got signal 11 ; Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: This could be because you hit a bug. It is also possible that this binary Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: or one of the libraries it was linked against is corrupt, improperly built, Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: or misconfigured. This error can also be caused by malfunctioning hardware. Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: To report this bug, see https://mariadb.com/kb/en/reporting-bugs Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: We will try our best to scrape up some info that will hopefully help Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: diagnose the problem, but since we have already crashed, Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: something is definitely wrong and this may fail. Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Server version: 10.5.9-MariaDB-1:10.5.9+maria~buster Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: key_buffer_size=134217728 Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: read_buffer_size=131072 Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: max_used_connections=16 Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: max_threads=153 Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: thread_count=16 Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: It is possible that mysqld could use up to Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: key_buffer_size + (read_buffer_size + sort_buffer_size)*max_threads = 467864 K bytes of memory Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Hope that's ok; if not, decrease some variables in the equation. Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Thread pointer: 0x7f24540128c8 Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Attempting backtrace. You can use the following information to find out Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: where mysqld died. If you see no messages after this, something went Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: terribly wrong... Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: stack_bottom = 0x7f249b153d58 thread_stack 0x49000 Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(my_print_stacktrace)[0x55bba07c815e] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(handle_fatal_signal)[0x55bba0255895] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(__restore_rt)[0x7f28bf618730] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(Type_handler_newdecimal::calc_pack_length(unsigned int) const)[0x55bb9ff0f6b8] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(SEL_ARG::tree_delete(SEL_ARG*))[0x55bba0378ae3] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(SEL_ARG::tree_delete(SEL_ARG*))[0x55bba0379163] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(SEL_IMERGE::and_sel_tree(RANGE_OPT_PARAM*, SEL_TREE*, SEL_IMERGE*))[0x55bba0379519] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(SEL_IMERGE::and_sel_tree(RANGE_OPT_PARAM*, SEL_TREE*, SEL_IMERGE*))[0x55bba03796b4] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(SEL_IMERGE::and_sel_tree(RANGE_OPT_PARAM*, SEL_TREE*, SEL_IMERGE*))[0x55bba037984b] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(Item_cond_and::get_mm_tree(RANGE_OPT_PARAM*, Item**))[0x55bba0379c6a] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(SQL_SELECT::test_quick_select(THD*, Bitmap<64u>, unsigned long long, unsigned long long, bool, bool, bool, bool))[0x55bba037be9f] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(JOIN::optimize_inner())[0x55bba00bf87f] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(JOIN::optimize())[0x55bba00c03b3] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(mysql_select(THD*, TABLE_LIST*, List<Item>&, Item*, unsigned int, st_order*, st_order*, Item*, st_order*, unsigned long long, select_result*, st_select_lex_unit*, st_select_lex*))[0x55bba00c0477] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(handle_select(THD*, LEX*, select_result*, unsigned long))[0x55bba00c0d6e] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(LEX::mark_first_table_as_inserting())[0x55bba005e381] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(mysql_execute_command(THD*))[0x55bba0067496] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(Prepared_statement::execute(String*, bool))[0x55bba007b345] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(Prepared_statement::execute_loop(String*, bool, unsigned char*, unsigned char*))[0x55bba007b502] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(Prepared_statement::execute_bulk_loop(String*, bool, unsigned char*, unsigned char*))[0x55bba007bfc5] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(mysqld_stmt_execute(THD*, char*, unsigned int))[0x55bba007c12b] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(dispatch_command(enum_server_command, THD*, char*, unsigned int, bool, bool))[0x55bba0064151] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(do_command(THD*))[0x55bba0065654] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(do_handle_one_connection(CONNECT*, bool))[0x55bba0155b71] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(handle_one_connection)[0x55bba0155f0d] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(MyCTX_nopad::finish(unsigned char*, unsigned int*))[0x55bba047e74b] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(start_thread)[0x7f28bf60dfa3] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: ??:0(clone)[0x7f28beb034cf] Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Trying to get some variables. Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Some pointers may be invalid and cause the dump to abort. Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Query (0x7f245405b2c8): /*community_xxx_net_production::community_xxx_net::IPS\Content\Search\Mysql\_Query::search:360*/ SELECT main.* FROM `ips_core_search_index` AS `main` WHERE ( ( index_class IN('IPS\\core\\Statuses\\Status','IPS\\core\\Statuses\\Reply') ) OR index_class=? OR ( index_class IN('IPS\\blog\\Entry','IPS\\blog\\Entry\\Comment') ) OR ( index_class IN('IPS\\downloads\\File','IPS\\downloads\\File\\Comment','IPS\\downloads\\File\\Review') ) ) AND ( ( ( index_class IN('IPS\\core\\Statuses\\Status','IPS\\core\\Statuses\\Reply') ) AND index_is_last_comment=1 ) OR ( index_class=? AND index_is_last_comment=1 ) OR ( ( index_class IN('IPS\\blog\\Entry','IPS\\blog\\Entry\\Comment') ) AND index_is_last_comment=1 ) OR ( ( index_class IN('IPS\\downloads\\File','IPS\\downloads\\File\\Comment','IPS\\downloads\\File\\Review') ) AND index_is_last_comment=1 ) ) AND ( ( ( index_class IN('IPS\\forums\\Topic','IPS\\forums\\Topic\\Post') ) AND (( index_container_id=5 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=6 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=7 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=8 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=9 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=11 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=12 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=13 AND index_date_updated > 1516478902) OR ( index_container_id=14 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=16 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=17 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=18 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=19 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=20 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_date_updated > 1516188909 AND ( index_container_id NOT IN(5,6,7,8,9,11,12,13,14,16,17,18,19,20) ) )) AND ( index_item_id NOT IN 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) ) OR ( ( index_class IN('IPS\\blog\\Entry','IPS\\blog\\Entry\\Comment') ) AND (( index_container_id=1 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=3 AND index_date_updated > 1579780331) OR ( index_container_id=5 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=6 AND index_date_updated > 1603212814) OR ( index_container_id=7 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=8 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=9 AND index_date_updated > 1599467191) OR ( index_container_id=10 AND index_date_updated > 1599144351) OR ( index_container_id=11 AND index_date_updated > 1585992440) OR ( index_container_id=14 AND index_date_updated > 1594651097) OR ( index_container_id=17 AND index_date_updated > 1596532823) OR ( index_container_id=27 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_date_updated > 1516188909 AND ( index_container_id NOT IN(1,3,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,14,17,27) ) )) AND ( index_item_id NOT IN (12,27,53,3,119,14,72,139,138,144,147,35,39,41,46,57,59,61,63,71,73,75,99,25,110) ) ) OR ( ( index_class IN('IPS\\downloads\\File','IPS\\downloads\\File\\Comment','IPS\\downloads\\File\\Review') ) AND (( index_container_id=1 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=9 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=11 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=12 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=14 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=15 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=16 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=20 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=24 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=25 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=26 AND index_date_updated > 1516188909) OR ( index_container_id=31 AND index_date_updated > 1613304577) OR ( index_date_updated > 1516188909 AND ( index_container_id NOT IN(1,9,11,12,14,15,16,20,24,25,26,31) ) )) AND ( index_item_id NOT IN (5,8,10,13,45,51,67,76,84,88,89,94,102) ) ) ) AND ( index_permissions = '*' OR ( FIND_IN_SET(3,index_permissions) OR FIND_IN_SET('m19519',index_permissions) ) ) AND index_hidden=? AND index_date_updated>? ORDER BY index_date_commented DESC LIMIT 0,25 Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Connection ID (thread ID): 39596 Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Status: NOT_KILLED Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Optimizer switch: index_merge=on,index_merge_union=on,index_merge_sort_union=on,index_merge_intersection=on,index_merge_sort_intersection=off,engine_condition_pushdown=off,index_condition_pushdown=on,derived_merge=on,derived_with_keys=on,firstmatch=on,loosescan=on,materialization=on,in_to_exists=on,semijoin=on,partial_match_rowid_merge=on,partial_match_table_scan=on,subquery_cache=on,mrr=off,mrr_cost_based=off,mrr_sort_keys=off,outer_join_with_cache=on,semijoin_with_cache=on,join_cache_incremental=on,join_cache_hashed=on,join_cache_bka=on,optimize_join_buffer_size=on,table_elimination=on,extended_keys=on,exists_to_in=on,orderby_uses_equalities=on,condition_pushdown_for_derived=on,split_materialized=on,condition_pushdown_for_subquery=on,rowid_filter=on,condition_pushdown_from_having=on,not_null_range_scan=off Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: The manual page at https://mariadb.com/kb/en/how-to-produce-a-full-stack-trace-for-mysqld/ contains Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: information that should help you find out what is causing the crash. Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Writing a core file... Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Working directory at /var/lib/mysql Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Resource Limits: Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Limit Soft Limit Hard Limit Units Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max cpu time unlimited unlimited seconds Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max file size unlimited unlimited bytes Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max data size unlimited unlimited bytes Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max stack size 8388608 unlimited bytes Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max core file size 0 unlimited bytes Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max resident set unlimited unlimited bytes Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max processes 128375 128375 processes Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max open files 100000 100000 files Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max locked memory 65536 65536 bytes Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max address space unlimited unlimited bytes Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max file locks unlimited unlimited locks Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max pending signals 128375 128375 signals Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max msgqueue size 819200 819200 bytes Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max nice priority 0 0 Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max realtime priority 0 0 Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Max realtime timeout unlimited unlimited us Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 mariadbd[16352]: Core pattern: core Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 kernel: [8909720.734022] mariadbd[16506]: segfault at 68 ip 000055bb9ff0f6b8 sp 00007f249b14fc70 error 4 in mariadbd[55bb9ff01000+972000]Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 kernel: [8909720.734026] Code: 05 e8 ec ce 28 00 48 8b 7d 90 48 85 ff 74 0b 80 7d a0 00 75 05 e8 d8 ce 28 00 48 89 df e8 10 0a 96 00 48 c7 43 58 00 00 00 00 <8b> 04 25 68 00 00 00 0f 0b 90 48 83 c2 01 75 10 e8 a3 2b ff ff 48 Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 systemd[1]: mariadb.service: Main process exited, code=killed, status=11/SEGV Mar 18 15:07:06 sd-135083 systemd[1]: mariadb.service: Failed with result 'signal'. Mar 18 15:07:11 sd-135083 systemd[1]: mariadb.service: Service RestartSec=5s expired, scheduling restart. Mar 18 15:07:11 sd-135083 systemd[1]: mariadb.service: Scheduled restart job, restart counter is at 10. Mar 18 15:07:11 sd-135083 systemd[1]: Stopped MariaDB 10.5.9 database server. Mar 18 15:07:11 sd-135083 systemd[1]: Starting MariaDB 10.5.9 database server... [...] The request causing this crash is huge:
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Hello,
With my admin account, MySQL crashes when I want to access to mysite.com/discover/unread:
MySQL server has gone away
2021/03/18 10:59:23 [error] 3683#3683: *8384 FastCGI sent in stderr: "PHP message: PHP Fatal error: Uncaught IPS\Db\Exception: MySQL server has gone away in /srv/www/community.xxx.net/current/web/ips/system/Db/Db.php:638 Stack trace: #0 /srv/www/community.xxx.net/current/web/ips/system/Db/Db.php(948): IPS\_Db->preparedQuery('/*community_lec...', Array) #1 /srv/www/community.xxx.net/current/web/ips/system/Session/Store/Database.php(77): IPS\_Db->insert('core_sessions', Array, true) #2 /srv/www/community.xxx.net/current/web/ips/system/Session/Front.php(369): IPS\Session\Store\_Database->updateSession(Array) #3 [internal function]: IPS\Session\_Front->write('d1065fa5b910835...', '') #4 [internal function]: session_write_close() #5 {main} thrown in /srv/www/community.xxx.net/current/web/ips/system/Db/Db.php on line 638PHP message: PHP Stack trace:PHP message: PHP 1. IPS\IPS::exceptionHandler($exception = class IPS\Db\Exception { public $query = 'SELECT main.* FROM `ips_core_search_index` AS `main` WHERE ( ( index_class IN(\'IPS\\\\core\\\\Statuses\\\\Status\',\'IPS\\\\core\\\\Statuses\\\\Reply\') ) OR index_class=? OR ( index_class IN(\'IPS\\\\blog\\\\Entry\',\'IPS\\\\blog\\\\Entry\\\\Comment\') ) OR ( index_class IN(\'IPS\\\\downloads\\\\File\',\'IPS\\\\downloads\\\\File\\\\Comment\',\'IPS\\\\downloads\\\\File\\\\Review\') ) OR index_class=? ) AND ( ( ( index_class IN(\'IPS\\\\core\\\\Statuses\\\\Status\',\'IPS\\\\core\\\\Statuses\\\\Reply\') ) AN'; public $binds = [0 => 'IPS\\forums\\Topic\\Post', 1 => 'IPS\\downloads\\File\\PendingVersion', 2 => 'IPS\\forums\\Topic\\Post', 3 => 1616057744]; protected $message = 'MySQL server has gone away'; private ${Exception}string = ''; protected $code = 2006; protected $file = '/srv/www/community.xxx.net/current/web/ips/system/Db/Db.php'; protected $line = 678; private ${Exception}trace = ...PHP message: PHP 2. IPS\IPS::genericExceptionPage($message = 'MySQL server has gone away') With all others members, there is no problem.
I manage to "solve" problem choosing "I will choose which content to include" + "Topics" instead of "All content".
IPS Support don't assist with server related issues.
I try various mysqld config options without success.
If someone have an idea how to solve this problem!
Thanks 🙂

@Paul E., is SQL the only thing you have offloaded outside of Compute Engine? What about object storage, elasticsearch, redis?

Before 4.5, members were able to follow others and disable notifications for status updates. After updating, this setting stopped working or were removed.
I agree with @Dll, and I'm getting complaints everyday for this reason.

Before 4.5, members were able to follow others and disable notifications for status updates. After updating, this setting stopped working or were removed.
I agree with @Dll, and I'm getting complaints everyday for this reason.

No... I told my users to unfollow members and disable all notifications for followed content 😞

That's flawed though, as someone is very likely to want to be notified when someone mentions them or replies directly to them, they're highly unlikely to want to be notified every time someone likes or reacts to their content. Particularly on a busier forum where there are 100's of reactions to some posts. 

No, but it does send a notification of a reaction to a post, which is linked in to selecting you want to be notified of new replies to a topic and there's no method to separate them. 

Have you considered introducing Lazy Loading for Profile Photos? This would help with page loading speed, If someone uses GIF or a lot of weighty pictures.

Similar boat - some members don't want to receive any notification and site keeps sending them daily digest and such. It would be nice to have one option i.e. for member A disable all email notifications. Problem solved. 

Something has to give with these notifications. Members who want to receive reply notifications are getting literally hundreds of emails a day because a post they make gets a lot of reactions. 
Ultimately that's making them decide to switch off their email notifications entirely....

I reported it...

It has already been released