Ok,
Also just found out if you go to a profile and add &do=profileprivacy at the end of the url you can edit that users privacy.
That's right, anybody can edit anyone else's privacy settings.
This is a big flaw!
Also this mod uses the members table and adds a default value of 'everyone' to every single member record. Slows down your entire member table.
I guess FYI to anyone looking at this or who is already using this.