If I choose to managed friends so that I want to approve everybody, I never get an indcator that there is a queue. So people who want to be friends think I'm just ignoring them?

In the member drop-down beneath where currently say "Messenger (X new)", it would be good if it said "Manage Friends (Y pending)" or something like that.

+1 is it also possible to have friend approval required by default?

+1 for both of you - I'd like to require approval by default on my board, and a way to see friends waiting for approval!

It basically shows here:

http://domain.com/forum/index.php?app=members&section=friends&module=profile&do=list&tab=pending

But i have no idea why that link is not included in profile page.

I always get emailed when someone requests I become their friend, don't you?

I always get emailed when someone requests I become their friend, don't you?

Michael is their anyway I can add new option in UCP where it shows Pending Approvals linking to above link? Can you point me to some tutorial?

I always get emailed when someone requests I become their friend, don't you?

Well that's a very good point. I don't seem to have been getting emails no, even though I have set it so that I should. I don't seem to get them for comments either.

But on the other hand, I have also set it so that I get emails when people send me Personal Messages. And even though I DO get these emails, when I visit the board, I get additional visual indicators (without visiting my profile), which I don't for Friends (at all), but I do for comments (but only if I look at my own profile).

It's just not consistent...