Thank you @Nathan Explosion now that is actually helpful! I appreciate it! www.cascadeclimbers.com and @Adriano Faria built a custom form that allows people to post a "Trip Report" and there is a "Team" form in that.
I thought it might just be opacity, which explains why there isn't a color I can switch it to. Wish I could have it switch to another color on selection, rather than just change opacity, but I guess that would be custom code. @Adriano Faria since this is sort of beyond the scope of what you charged me initially, let me know if you think that would be possible for a reasonable cost...otherwise I'll try to train my users to live with it as is..
Again, thanks again @Nathan Explosion , that was really the type of guidance I was hoping for over "NOT SUPPORTED". 😀