Is there an option to enable approve other members that add you to their friends list? I can't find one.

You can set that option on this page in My Controls.

In the 'Moderation Options' set 'New Friends' to 'Only when I approve them.'

If someone adds you as a friend, you don't show up on their list unless you have approved them. You can approve them by going to your portal page, clicking on your 'Friends' tab, then clicking on 'Manage Friends' at the bottom of your friends list. On the next popup select the 'Friends Pending Approval' tab. You can approve of decline friends here.

This option should be included in My Controls too. It's not easy to find it there.

This option should be included in My Controls too. It's not easy to find it there.

I'd found it out of place there, but I do think the 'Manage Friends' link on the portal page needs to be more prominent - at the top of the friends list maybe?

You can set that option on

this page

in My Controls.

In the 'Moderation Options' set 'New Friends' to 'Only when I approve them.'

If someone adds you as a friend, you don't show up on their list unless you have approved them. You can approve them by going to your portal page, clicking on your 'Friends' tab, then clicking on 'Manage Friends' at the bottom of your friends list. On the next popup select the 'Friends Pending Approval' tab. You can approve of decline friends here.

Is there any way to remove yourself from other's Friends list? I think need approval should be set to default