Just found this out and found it quite buggy to be honest. I get emails that ppl have added me to their friends list however when i visit the forum theres absolutely no way to see who added me?!?! WHY NOT, i think its silly and doesn't make any sense, i should be able to see which people have added me as friends! right?

Wasn't that info in the email? I thought it was. And then don't they show up in the 'Friends Pending Approval' list (assuming you're using that option).

it wasn't on before but it is now. And yes the info was in the email but what if wanna see if after they've been approved or i've deleted the email? it should show ppl that added you too or not if you added them back.

So like in addition to the current 'My Friends' display, there would be one for what other members have me on their friends list? I think I get you.

not even an addition you could just colour code it differently to save that hassle or title it but yea basically that.

It is there! you can see who has added you.. go to MY Friends, Mutal Friends, in the drop down box select show who added me and you get a list of all those who have added you whether they are on your friends list or not

On a site I went to you could allow it by email or just let them add you. And I could see they added me. I am really puzzled about this place. :unsure:

On a site I went to you could allow it by email or just let them add you. And I could see they added me. I am really puzzled about this place. :unsure:

You can set it to where it automatically adds friends without you approving this. To enable this option, simply visit your profile. Then, click on the "Settings" tab, and notice where it says "New Friends." Select from the drop-down menu as "Disabled - Allow addition without approving," and finally, save your settings, et voil

It is there! you can see who has added you.. go to MY Friends, Mutal Friends, in the drop down box select show who added me and you get a list of all those who have added you whether they are on your friends list or not

oh yea!!! that goes to show its horrible hard to find :P. add that or a drop down list to friends tab in the main profile maybe? i never did like the popup, as i never use the assistant i never use that either and just think it doesn't flow well.

oh yea!!! that goes to show its horrible hard to find :P.

"Friends > Manage Friends" -- yep, pretty horrible hard to find. :lol:

For some people anyway, lol.

ACTUALLY

My Friends -> wait for it load -> mutual friends -> click the drop down box -> click show who has added me.

see its hard :P.

ACTUALLY

My Friends -> wait for it load -> mutual friends -> click the drop down box -> click show who has added me.

see its hard :P.

It's a paradox, my friend. Seldom-used features are are not given prominence; features not given prominence are seldom used. :lol: